The app for honest inner clarity

Understand what moves you.

You start with a situation that is on your mind right now. After a few questions you see more clearly what is at work in you, and what your next step could be.

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All cards are free to look through. No app store needed.

The app home screen: What do I feel, What do I need, What matters to me

Do any of these sound familiar?

Four moments when the world outside is full of answers and your own is still missing.

“Everything fits, really. And still something is off.”

From the outside everything is fine. Inside, your own answer is still missing.

“I only notice afterwards that I have overridden myself again.”

In the moment there was no time to feel into it. Afterwards there is.

“I can name every argument and still do not know what I want.”

Good reasons are not enough as long as your own criterion is missing.

“Something is changing. I just do not know where it is going yet.”

A transition has begun. The direction is still open.

Why this is getting harder right now

There are not fewer options, there are more. Suggestions, comparisons and assessments are available at any time. And the more you can be told about what is possible, the more you need your own criterion for which of it is yours.

AI knows what is possible. Your inner compass knows what counts for you.

Finding words

What is in you deserves a name.

Some things stay unclear as long as they have no word. The cards offer you words to choose from, so that you do not have to search but can recognize.

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Feelings cards
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Needs cards
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Values cards

The needs words are spoken. You can listen to every single one.

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Needs card Honesty: sincerity, openness, category Togetherness

A card from the needs set. The word on the front, its meaning below. The color shows the category, here togetherness.

And what if you want to do more than name it?

Why does this affect me so much?
What really matters to me?
What can I do now?

For exactly these three questions, Premium holds tools that guide you through step by step.

Premium

Life direction: from noticing to taking action

Premium is not a collection of features, it is one movement in four steps. You can enter at any point, and you keep coming back past the beginning.

01

Awareness

What is here right now? You hold on to what you notice, without judging it straight away.

02

Name

Which feeling, which need? A diffuse state turns into words.

03

Express

How do I say it so that it arrives? You bring outward what matters to you.

04

Shape

What do I do with it? You decide on one step and take direction of your life.

And the circle closes: I act, I notice the effect, I adjust.

What helps you in these steps

From a single moment through the day and one area of life to the year, and to what holds true beyond it.

Awareness and name

NOW Compass

Sorting out one concrete situation: from the trigger through the feelings to what matters most to you right now. And then deciding what you do with it.

Name

Feelings when needs are met

Connecting with how it feels when a need is met.

Express

The 3-Step Method

Context, Need or Value, Request: saying what matters to you in a way that arrives.

Awareness

My Day

In the morning you choose how you would like to feel today. In the evening you look back at whether and when you experienced it. Together with my need of the day.

Shape

Current and Desired States

How far your needs are met in one area of life right now, with an evaluation.

Shape

What I trade my time for

You spend lifetime at work and get money for it. Here you see what that money actually does for meeting your needs.

Shape

My needs for the year

Which needs should stand in the foreground this year. That gives the year a direction you can measure single decisions against.

Name

My life values

Finding out which values really count for you, and not only which ones sound good.

Name

Comparing values with someone

Making what is shared and what differs visible when two people lay their values side by side.

Awareness

What guides me

The sentences that shape your decisions without you ever having said them out loud.

From a feeling to a concrete step

On the left are the feelings at the beginning. On the right is the step you set for yourself. That jump is the NOW Compass.

Two details from one evaluation in the app.

Detail: the feelings at the beginning of the NOW Compass
Detail: the section with your direction and the concrete step
Evening reflection in My Day

Looking back in the evening, not scoring

In My Day there is only one question in the evening: did you experience what you wished for in the morning, and when? No score, no streak, no result.

What you are not aware of determines you. What you become aware of, you can shape.

Seeing where your life stands right now

You choose an area of life, for example home, work or your relationship. First you hold on to which needs should be met there, and how it feels when they are. That is your desired state.

Then you look need by need at how far it is met in your situation today, your current state. In the end you see at a glance where your life agrees with your direction and where it does not.

And you can do the same comparison again later. Then both values stand side by side, and you see not only how far something is met but also whether something has moved. Sometimes two days are enough.

The use is not the number, it is the view of the whole and of the change: not one feeling from today, but a whole area of life as a picture.

Evaluation of Current and Desired States: two comparisons two days apart, one bar per need

My life over time: two comparisons, two days apart. The numbers show what has moved.

How to get the app onto your phone

There is no app store and no installation. The app is a website that behaves like an app on your phone. Three steps, and it sits as an icon on your home screen.

Android

1

Open sprache-verbindet.at/app-en in Chrome.

2

Tap the menu in the top right, then “Add to home screen”.

3

Confirm the name. The app now sits as an icon on your phone.

iPhone

1

Open sprache-verbindet.at/app-en in Safari. Other browsers cannot do this step on the iPhone.

2

Tap “Share” at the bottom, then “Add to Home Screen”.

3

Confirm with “Add”. The app now sits as an icon on your phone.

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Start for free. Go deeper when it feels right.

Free

Free for good, with no app store account.

55 feelings cards
55 needs cards, spoken
54 values cards
Premium

Life direction

Everything from Free, plus the tools for honest inner clarity.

All three card sets
NOW Compass
My Day and my need of the day
Current and Desired States
Values tools
What guides me
Comparing values with someone
What I trade my time for
Time to direct my life
Monthly
€9.90
Yearly
€99.00

Paying yearly costs about two monthly payments less.

The purchase happens in the app, not on this page. The prices are here for your information.

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Two promises

We do not interpret you.

The app does not tell you who you are. It asks you questions and holds on to what you recognize yourself. No pattern becomes a statement before you have confirmed it.

Your entries belong to you.

Everything you enter is stored encrypted. Not even we can read it. Nothing is passed on, sold or analyzed for advertising. You can delete everything at any time.

Irmgard and Stefan Wallner

Who is behind this

We are Irmgard and Stefan Wallner.

What this app offers, we first tried on ourselves. We set up our life according to what really matters to us, and not according to what was usual.

Irmgard has been working with seminars, workshops, trainings and coaching since 2008, fully self-employed since 2010 and online only since the pandemic. That made possible what we wanted: to live and work independently of place. Malta is our home, and otherwise you will find us in many beautiful places of this world.

Behind it was not a thirst for adventure but a question we kept asking ourselves: what do we really need, and how much of it actually shows up in our everyday life? Over the years the answers turned into tools. First for us, then in seminars, then in the book “Make Your Life Worth Living” and in Time to direct my life, both created together.

The app is the simplest form of it. So that you do not only know it, but do it.

Shaping your life according to your own needs and values. Not only talking about it.

Short answers

Do I need an app store?+

No. You open the app in your browser and place it as an icon on your home screen. There is no installation and no app store account.

What does the app cost?+

The three card sets in the app are free. Premium costs €9.90 monthly or €99.00 yearly. You can cancel in the app at any time. Your access stays until the end of the paid period, after that you keep using the cards for free. With the purchase you agree that the service begins immediately, and thereby waive the 14-day right of withdrawal.

Is this an app for Nonviolent Communication?+

Our work is called appreciative communication. Feelings and needs are the way in, the aim is honest inner clarity and a consciously shaped life. So the app is not a course in a method, it is a personal system for your own clarity.

Does an AI analyze me?+

No. The app does not interpret you. It asks you questions and holds on to what you recognize yourself. What you enter stays your own statement.

Can I use the app on a computer?+

Yes. You open the same address in your browser. It is designed for the phone, because that is where you carry it through your day.

What languages is it available in?+

The app is fully available in German and English, all areas and all cards. You can switch at any time in the top right, even in the middle of using it. The spoken needs words are there in both languages too.

What happens to my entries?+

Your entries belong to you. They are not published anywhere, not passed on and not used for advertising. What is stored is what you enter yourself: chosen feelings, needs and values, your own notes and your evaluations. For summaries the respective text is processed, and only you see the result.

You can delete single entries at any time, and you can delete your account with all its data permanently. What exactly is stored and for how long is set out in the privacy policy.

Do I need the book as well?+

No. The app works on its own. If you like, “Make Your Life Worth Living” goes deeper into the thinking behind it.

Start with a situation that is on your mind right now.

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